Should I do it, and if so, how?

2016-05-03 19:31
I've been giving a boy in my class secret admirer notes, and I just want to give him a big hint of who I am, but I'm afraid it will make him look like an idiot because I'm the suckiest girl in our class. I'm ugly, over-weight, and I can't do anything right!!! I'm basically an out-cast, I mean, I have friends and all, but only one of them is not even all the way a best friend. I need help and advice!!! FAST PLEASE!!!!!
You say that you have given him multiple notes. If he's a smart boy, he already knows who you are. He's probably trying to figure out how not to hurt your feelings. Remember to not sell yourself short. You have your whole life ahead of you.
Paying too much attention (notes, whatever) to someone who isn't responding can appear "needy." This is usually not considered attractive, except to those who would like to take advantage of you. If he's not reacting, back off a little. Give him room to breathe and think things over.
I would advise you to write him a secret note and tell him who you are. If you tell him openly when his friends are there he will be laughed at and feel embarrassed. This will make him ignore you, even if he likes you a lot.

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